What about the things you do have?

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As we bring our vacation to a close, I can't help but be thankful for the things that I do have in life:  a wonderful husband, a loving mom, sisters I wouldn't trade for the world, awesome friends, amazing nieces and nephews, a home and a job that helps us keep it.

So often , we go through life complaining or listening to complaints about the things we don't have and think we want, things others are doing that we aren't.  Do me a favor, cherish the things you do have because I can assure you that it is much more than the next person; besides you don't truly know what the person on the other side of the fence has gone through or is going through.  Remember you will only see what others want you to see, NOT the truth.  If there is something that you feel you really need in your life, you have the power to change it; just be prepared for what comes along with the choices you make.

Well, I have gone off on a tangent.  The point of this post is to highlight the things in my life that I cherish.  With this time away, I get to think more about my life, Jamie's life, and our lives together and about where we started.  It seems that every vacation Jamie and I take gets better and better.  I think it because each time we spend more time focusing on each other and nothing else.  The one thing I will say, from personal experience of course, is that every marriage deserves that kind of attention.  






Location: Choctawhatchee River Tract Vernon

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